The solution to uncoordinated DER is known: coordinate it through a Virtual Power Plant. Dispatch the batteries. Manage the export. Provide frequency response, demand response, and voltage support. The technology exists and works.
But VPP participation requires the customer to hand over partial control of an asset they paid for. A customer who spent $10,000 to $15,000 on a solar and battery system bought it for themselves, for personal savings and self-sufficiency. The grid needs that same asset used in a fundamentally different way: coordinated, dispatchable, responsive to market signals.
These interests are in structural conflict. VPP opt-in rates have been persistently low. Not because the technology fails, but because the incentives are misaligned. The person who owns the asset has no reason to let someone else control it.